Reflections

These reflections explore change, uncertainty, and the spaces in between, drawn from themes that often emerge in my counselling work.

The Spaciousness of an Empty Nest

A reflection on the unexpected openness that can follow when children leave home, and the mix of freedom, ambiguity, and emotion this stage of life can bring.

When Not Knowing Feels Uncomfortable

A reflection on uncertainty, and what it can be like to remain with not knowing rather than moving quickly toward answers.

Choosing Change

A reflection on decision, particularly when change depends on a conscious choice rather than external circumstances.

Personal Reflections

These pieces are written more directly from my own experience, exploring identity, change, and meaning.

On Names and the Sea

A reflection on identity, place, and meaning. How my name, its origins, and a relationship with the sea have shaped my sense of self over time.

Becoming a Counsellor in Midlife

A personal reflection on retraining, identity, and choosing a new direction during the transition into an empty nest.

If these themes feel familiar and you would like support exploring them in your own life, therapy can offer a space to reflect and make sense of change.